Because why not. What’s the best that can happen? When we pursue a dream we take a chance on life, and often life meets us half way. If you try now and fail you are in the same position you were in, with more wisdom and more experience. If you try now and succeed, you have gained everything. So why not try if there is nothing to lose?

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What is Your Dream?

There are some of who dream and dream big and have always seemed to know their dream. They know what they want and begin working towards it. And there are some who think they maybe kinda have a dream, or could possibly find a dream to follow from social media or books we’ve read. They may know what we want, but aren’t sure where to begin.

If you’re part of the latter group, try answering these journal prompts to reveal more about your dreams:

Think about when you were a child or a teenager, was there something you wanted to do or become? Or what did you love doing as a child or teenager or young adult?
Write down: I want to… and finish the sentence. Write this sentence 10 or 30 times until you’ve got some ideas and have let your creativity flow. Choose one of these dreams to follow today.
Like the idea before, what do you think of when you imagine your best life in 5 years?
Think about what you don’t like about your life (apartment, job, how you spend your time, a bad habit) and then think about how changing something would make you happier. Sometimes it’s easier to know what you don’t like or want, so use that to figure out what you like or want.
If money was of no concern, what would you do (for work, in your spare time, with your family)?
Who or what do you envy? Sometimes, envy and jealousy can lead to inspiration for your own life. You’re aware of what you want.
Ask people who know you well what they think your dream is. Maybe you’re always talking about something without realising it, or maybe they recognise your potential in something, but you haven’t spent time refining it.

Read here for more journal prompts :) As you’re reflecting on these answers or daring to dream again, think back and allow yourself to dream like the kid who hadn’t discovered self-doubt yet.

What are the Actionable Steps You Need to Take?

It is time to be led by your dreams, because you were given them for a reason. The world needs your light, I’m sure of it. List any and all potential actionable steps that you may need to take to turn your dream into your reality. Think about ideas in and outside the box. And then rearrange the list into a logical order of what would need to be done first, then somewhere in the middle, and lastly at the end.

If speaking to groups of people is part of your dream (whether it be in having confidence in company meetings, in a courtroom, or in a classroom) think about joining Toastmasters type groups to practice and improve your public speaking and build your confidence.
Is your dream to sign and earn money from it? Look for groups of like-minded people in your area and attend gigs, events and showcases. You are making connections with people in this world just by attending at first.
Your dream may be to live healthier so that you’re around for your family. Start moving your body today. Go for a walk, get a subscription for a workout app to exercise at home, join a gym and get a personal trainer, or sign up for 10 classes at a yoga studio. Change up your eating habits and choose healthier options. Do what works for you and your lifestyle.

Take the First Actionable Step Today

Today is the day to follow your dreams! It’s okay (if not important) to start small:

If becoming an author is your dream, set out time to write each day to improve your skills.
When your dream is to afford to live in a particular apartment or home, it’s time to draw up a budget.
If you want to try surfing, book a lesson today.
To be healthier, go for that walk and limit your coffee and alcohol intake from now.

Remember, your dreams know the way

Following your dreams can be a daunting and challenging endeavour, because you almost always need to step outside of your comfort zone. It is never too late to pursue your dreams. It’s never too late to start something new. It is never too late to try.

Celebrate the smalls wins, and the big ones. Have a little faith and as you start pursuing your dreams watch the synchronicities happen as the universe conspires in helping you. Begin to trust in divine timing. Taking the first step is often the hardest, and it can feel vulnerable to put yourself out there, so give yourself grace and lean into this growth period. And if self-doubt creeps in or your inner critic becomes louder, change up your thoughts and ask yourself: What’s the best that can happen?

[Updated in 2026]

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