The Secrets to Choosing Your Partner Daily

The secrets to choosing your partner daily are out, and they are simple to do to nurture one of the most important relationships in your life.

Dear Spirited Earthling,

Choosing your partner daily is a concept that emphasizes the importance of actively working on your relationship with your significant other. It means making a conscious effort to show your love and appreciation for your partner every day, rather than taking them for granted.

Romantic relationships are especially important in life because you spend a lot of time with your partner, value their opinion and listen to them more than others. When you’re lucky enough to find your person, your soul mate, your always and forever – choose them and your relationship, daily.

How to Choose Your Partner and Relationship Daily

1. Say Thank You

Noticing and appreciating who your partner is and what they do AND communicating this to them is so valuable to a relationship. If you love the way your partner makes you a coffee when you wake up, be sure to thank them for it every time. When they make you smile after a long day, say thank you for the upliftment.

2. Show Public Displays of Affection

There are some couples who easily show PDA and some who cringe at the thought. Simply connecting with each other in public by holding hands or linking arms when walking or resting a hand on their leg when seated can be very healthy for your relationship.

Give them a kiss when leaving the house, when they return, and before bed. While these aren’t public displays, they are displays of affection that can be important to a relationship.

3. Share Compliments

Keep the niceties of an early relationship. If your partner of 5 years looks good, then tell them. If your partner cooks a delicious meal, tell them.

A sincere compliment can change your partner’s day because you know it can change yours. You feel seen and loved. See your partner, always. Let them know how incredible they are.

4. Talk to Each Other about Everything

Keep communicating. Let your partner know what you need when you need it. Listen and hear what they need when they need it. Talk about it when you’re in good spaces, maybe out for a walk in a neutral and calm environment.

5. Notice and Learn

You spend a lot of time together, so listen and watch your partner to learn more about them.

What changes their mood (annoys or stresses them, and relaxes or calms them)? How do they unwind? What do they enjoy doing on a weekend? What small acts that you do for them always bring a smile to their face?

Noticing a shift in your partner and being able to react in a way that supports them without you being told can be huge. Talk about it too.

6. Go to Bed at the Same Time

Pillow talk is a point of connection and is a secret to choosing your partner and relationship daily. You’re connecting with each other after long days, fun days, stressful days, happy days.

When you have a house full of people, it may be a sanctuary for you two to spend time alone and talk. Share your favourite part of your day. Share a compliment or say thank you for something your partner did. See your partner and appreciate them.

7. Say, I Love You

Say those 3 simple words when they do something, and your love for them washes over you. I love you holds so much weight, even months, years, and decades later.

One of the biggest secrets to choosing your partner daily is beginning as you intend to carry on. If you write love notes, don’t stop. Choose to make that show of love daily. If you stop receiving love notes, tell your partner you missed them and really love receiving them. When you stop giving each other a kiss when you get home, it’s a connection lost. This relationship is one of the most important relationships in your life, so nurture it.  One of the ways to give and receive love in ways that suit each of you as individuals is learning what each other’s love languages are.

Choosing your partner and relationship is a two-way street – both of you need to choose for a healthy, happy relationship. Relationships will never be 50 / 50. There will be times when you will give more and times when your partner will. It should never always fall on you to always give, and not on them either. A family gap plan can help when things are busy. The secrets to choosing your partner daily can help during the every day, ‘normal’ times.

Remember that you should not wait to be chosen by someone in order to live your best life. It is better to be single than be in the wrong relationship.

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Best wishes, warmest regards

Jordan

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