Breaking Free from a Fixed Mindset to Unlock Potential

Understand what a fixed mindset is, how to recognise one, and explore how to break free from a fixed mindset to help you unlock your potential and lead a happier and fuller life.

Dear Spirited Earthling,

Your mindset is the foundation upon which your self-development can be built. How you view your skills, approach challenges and cope with change can profoundly impact your life. There are 8 mindset types a person can have. This post shares what a fixed mindset is, how to recognise it in yourself, and how to break free from a fixed mindset to unlock your fullest potential.

This is What a Fixed Mindset is

A fixed mindset is the belief that your intelligence, skills, talents, and personality are fixed traits that cannot be changed. Individuals with a fixed mindset believe they cannot grow and improve themselves because of these fixed, born with traits. Therefore, they avoid challenges, fear failure, and give up when effort is required of them.

How to Recognise a Fixed Mindset

There are ways to recognise a fixed mindset in your thoughts and those around you. While changing your mindset can be difficult and takes time, recognising you have a fixed mindset is the first step to shifting it to a growth mindset.

Have you ever found yourself thinking that no matter how hard you try, you'll never be able to improve or learn something new? If so, you may have a fixed mindset. Here are questions to ask yourself to recognise if you have a fixed mindset:

• Avoiding Challenges: Do you tend to avoid tasks or situations that you're not already skilled at, fearing that you might fail or appear incompetent?

• Seeking Approval: Are you obsessed and anxious with seeking approval or validation from others? A fixed mindset focuses on looking good rather than learning and growing.

• Limited Effort: Do you give up easily when you face obstacles, or do you stop trying when you think you're not making rapid progress?

• Defensiveness in the Face of Feedback: Do you become defensive when receiving constructive criticism, or do you take feedback personally?

• Attributing Success and Failure: Do you attribute success solely to inherent talent and failure to a lack of ability?

• Jealous of Success: Do you feel jealous or threatened by the success of others?

Naturally, these questions can be asked of others. Share this post with family and friends who will benefit from this.

“Failure is so important. We speak about success all the time, but it is the ability to resist or use failure that often leads to greater success.”~ J. K. Rowling

How to Break Free from a Fixed Mindset to Unlock Your Potential

A fixed mindset may have brought you this far in life, but shifting to a growth mindset will empower you and transform your life in unimaginable ways. Here are ideas on how to break free from a fixed mindset to unlock your potential:

1. Become More Self-Aware

The first step to breaking free from a fixed mindset is recognising you have one. Self-awareness is the key to change. Take time to explore your beliefs and values so you better understand yourself and the reasons behind your motivations.

Read: Understand Your Values and Beliefs with Helpful Journal Prompts

2. Embrace Challenges

You will naturally feel apprehension and fear when faced with challenges. To shift your mindset, dare to step outside your comfort zone. Growth is on the other side of discomfort, and soon dealing with some challenges and setbacks will become second nature. Welcome new experiences and tasks that require effort and learning.

Read: Why, How to, and Easy, Doable Ideas to Invest in Yourself

3. View Failure as Learning

Change your perspective on failure by seeing it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Failure does not need to be viewed as a personal indictment. There is a lot of wisdom that can be gained from the lessons failure can teach you.

Read: The Best Benefits of Not Being the Smartest Person in the Room

4. Put in the Effort

Remind yourself that effort is the pathway to mastery. In order to be better, you need to do better – requiring effort, dedication and discipline.

Read: Inspiring Quotes on Taking Small Steps to Reach Big Goals

5. Seek Respected Feedback

Feedback is a valuable tool for personal growth when it is from respected sources. It can be beneficial guide in identifying which skills to improve. There will be people in your life with fixed, scarcity, pessimistic, and closed mindsets who’s feedback should be taken with this in mind. People with growth, abundance, optimistic, and open mindsets will provide more encouraging, practical, and constructive feedback.

Read: Why You Need to Know Who and What Influences You

6. Replace Negative Self-Talk

Be mindful of negative self-talk and reframe and replace it with positive, growth-oriented thoughts. The words you speak, especially to yourself, matter. For example, replace:

·       "I can't do this" with "I can't do this yet.”

·       “I'm not good at this" with "I may not be good at this yet, but I can be with practice.”

·       "I'm a failure” with "I faced a setback, but I can learn from it and do better next time."

Read: Inspiring Ideas for Boosting Confidence with Self-compassion

7. Cultivate a Love for Learning

Begin to develop a genuine curiosity and passion for learning new things. Explore subjects and skills simply because they interest you, whether you think you have innate talent or not. Consider travelling more to experience new places, people, cultures, cuisines.

Read: Why Hobbies are Good and Interesting Hobby Inspiration

8. Celebrate Effort and Progress

Progress takes time so remember that you can be a masterpiece and a work in progress simultaneously. By celebrating your efforts and progress, you remind yourself of how far you’ve come and how much you have grown.

Read: Simple and Affordable Ways to Celebrate and Reward Yourself

Breaking free from a fixed mindset to unlock your potential will be a transformative and empowering journey. You will begin to thrive personally and professionally. Choose to believe that you can shift your perspective to a growth mindset through conscious effort and self-reflection.

“Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the things that you did do. So sail away from the safe harbor. Explore. Dream. Discover.” ~ Mark Twain

For more on mindset types, read Revealing 8 Mindset Types People Have and Reasons Why. For more on a growth mindset, read Understanding and Cultivating a Growth Mindset to Empower You.

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Best wishes, warmest regards

Jordan

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